“You Can Buy Me A Drink”

So despite the independent female that I am, when I go clubbing male companionship is always a plus. According to a friend of mine, men are completely useless and “we don’t need them.” However I totally disagree. When I club with my girls we have one strict rule; NO CUFFING. That means that we cant “study” one guy for the whole night. Then what happens? You end up bored, alone, and parched. So what do you do? This becomes one of those times when you break the girl code. It’s time for a drink-on him.


How to get Mr. Man to buy you a drink:

1. The eyes have it : Eye contact is key. I heard from another male that eyes were one of the sexiest features on a woman (Learn how to use them!!!!). Make sure you don’t over do it though because there have been times where ladies have tried this and end up cocked eyed (don’t ask, don’t tell).

2. Reverse the Role: Some where down the road females developed this idea that men are ALWAYS supposed to approach them first. According to my cousin (who I may add is very masculine) a woman who is able to “G” him the same way he can “G” her is one of the easiest ways to make him want to know more about you. Being aggressive doesn’t mean getting on your ‘debo’ flow because that’s not sexy. Remember, less is always more when it comes to assertiveness.

3. Small talk: No one likes a dull person. Your mouth has more than one purpose (no pun intended). If you can jibber jabber to your girl friends about how your flow has all the dudes in your life going crazy, then you can muster up a measly ‘hey how you doing?’ or a ‘you look very nice in your Armani exchange’. How ever DO NOT LIE; some men take words literally.

4. Touch Me Tease Me: Physical contact triggers many senses. You can dance with him, caress his hot spots, or simply brush up on him. You can also whisper a little something in his ear to let him know what’s on your agenda.


PLEASE KNOW:

If he buys you the drink, there might be something that he’s looking for in return.

1. Your Number
2. A “ride” around town
3. A night cap
4. Unlimited Cuffing (no bueno)



When you get your drink, always remember to be cordial and say thank you. If he does ask you for you’re your number you can either give him your real one, or give him a rejection hotline one.





Drink Responsibly*

Jazzy